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2009年9月6日星期日

自尊结构模式

我们那伟大的古人弄了一个所谓的自尊结构模式(branden‘s six pillars of self esteem)
来~前几天教写信~今天教你们什么为有自尊的人

一下六点是有自尊的人才有的东东

1. live consciously (知道自己的存在)
be actively and fully engaged in what you do and with whom you interact
活跃并充分了解自己的所作所为和与自己有交流的人

2. be self-accepting (自我接受)
don't be overly judgmental or critical of your thoughts and actions
不对自己的思想和行为有过分的要求或不满

3. take personal responsibility (自我负责)
take full responsibility for your decisions and actions in life's journey
对自己生命旅程里的决定和行为负责

4. be self-assertive (自我肯定)
be authentic and willing to defend your beliefs when interacting with others, rather than bending to their will to be accepted or liked
当与别人交流时,会维护自己的真正的信念,不容易被别人动摇

5. live purposefully(有目的地活着)
have clear near-term and long-term goals and realistic plans for achieving them to create a sense of control in your life
会实现自己清楚设下短期和长期的实际目标来控制自己的人生,

6. have personal integrity (真诚的对待自己)
be true to your word and your values
真诚的对待自己所说的话和自我价值


嗯~今天就到此吧~
话说~英文的是真的~华语是我乱翻译的 = =+
不要学坏就好~哈哈

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